Hi, I am Charlie (they/them)

I'm a spiritual and sensual being passionate about human connection, nervous system-based healing, and the liberation of pleasure for all beings.

Through my own experience and education, I encourage my clients and students to find what expression of self, sexuality, and pleasure feels most empowering and authentic to them.

How I Got Here

If someone had told me a decade ago that I'd be living the life I am today, I wouldn't have believed them. Even on my most creative day, I couldn't have dreamed up the beauty, love, and joy that fill my life now. I wasn't aware that it was possible to love myself and my body this much.

To enjoy the space in my head so dearly that alone time has become a safe and sacred space. To express my queerness and self with such deep pride that it still brings tears to my eyes. To look in the mirror and feel so confident in my sexuality and skin that my pleasure has become my favorite place on earth. To have the voice in my head telling me how much it loves me, how proud it is of me, whispering how much I deserve every ounce of joy I experience. To know that no matter what life throws me no one will ever be able to take away this loving and empowering relationship I have with myself.  This is why I became a coach. This is why I do what I do. 

It has taken years of inner work, and a small obsession with psychology, mental health, and eastern healing modalities, to get to the place I am today. I held so much shame around my body, my queerness, my desire for non-monogamy, my creativity, my actions, and even the food I ate. This shame extended to my very existence, leading me to adopt a facade of normalcy in an attempt to please others. The consequence? My libido waned, and my confidence plummeted, leaving me feeling broken and miserable.

Little did I know then that there existed an alternative path, a way to embrace my true self.

Thankfully, there was a small spark within me that decided to share my struggles with others. I was shocked to realize that many of my friends were dealing with similar issues. When I realized I was not alone in this, a huge weight was lifted off my shoulders, but I knew there was something bigger going on.    

I committed to learning everything I could in the realm of mental health and sexuality. I started practicing yoga and traveled to India to study, completing my 200-hour yoga teacher training. I started meditating and was able to compartmentalize the shadows of my mind from my authentic and empowered self. Then, I  found Tantra and my entire life changed. I read every book I could, listened to podcasts, went to workshops, and experienced a level of pleasure and power I had only dreamed of.

I was so enthralled that I chose to train for over 800 hours with the Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality. I learned how to sit with and befriend my darkest shadows. I explored my sexual power while releasing shame around my desire.  I learned pleasure practices stemming from the Taoist and tantric traditions. We did everything from studying psychology and trauma healing techniques to doing sex magic, naked in Costa Rica, with 80 other students.

I recognize that my journey of healing and personal growth in the realm of inner exploration and sexuality is an ongoing, lifelong process, I've come much closer to embodying the person I've always aspired to be. This profound transformation is accessible to anyone willing to embark on a similar path of self-love and empowerment.

You deserve to experience this profound connection with yourself and unleash the unshakable power within you.

As leaders, which includes all of us, it is important to express our values and politics clearly and with pride.

I am:

  • Black Lives Matter // Trans Lives Matter // Pro-Choice // Pro Climate Justice // Pro Sex Work // LGBTQIA2S+ Rights

  • I am against racism, sexism, ableism, ageism, and fatphobia.

  • As an entrepreneur who participates in capitalism and loves what I do, I also believe that there is no ethical way to become a billionaire and that big corporations and banks are the main perpetrators of climate change and wealth inequality.

  • I understand that I have much more to learn (and unlearn) and know that this list will change and evolve as I do myself.

    [Thank you to Luna Deirich for modeling this and for being an incredible guide in the world of pleasure, politics, and healing.]

Education + Trainings

The Tantric Institute of Integrated Sexuality: Sex, Love, and Relationship Coaching Certification

World Coaching Institute, Certified Professional Coach

Ecstatic Hearts Tantra, Cobra Breath Level 1 Training

Padma Karma Yoga, 200 Yoga Teacher Training

Bachelor of Fine Arts, College-Conservatory of Music,

University of Cincinnati

I celebrate you for being here. Getting to know yourself in this way is no easy task, but I promise that the pleasure you will experience is well worth the work.

My coaching programs are crafted to cater to individuals of all body types, embracing diversity in gender, race, sexuality, and relationship styles. I am dedicated to fostering inclusivity and acknowledge that, as a white individual, my perspective is limited by the privilege I possess. Committed to ongoing education in social justice and privilege, I welcome feedback to enhance the inclusiveness of my offerings and programs.

Free Meditation

My mission is to empower you to explore a more fulfilling and intimate experience of life. This meditation will connect you to the wisdom of your body so you can ground deeper into yourself and your authentic pleasure.